What Should You Tell Your Teenage Daughter About Her First Time?

Most people become sexually active during adolescence and that includes that at that age, almost all start having intercourse. The parents of the teenage girls wonder if they should do something, if they have to ask their daughters about their sex lives, if they need to spy or even if it is necessary to talk to them. The first thing that these parents should know is that it's normal to be worried.

The sexuality of their daughters is a very important aspect of their lives. To have a healthy and safe sexual life is essential not only for them but right now for their future too.



As for the other questions, there are some responses that serve to parents of all teenagers but others must answer themselves because factors involved in these responses as the character of their daughters, personality and even their ideology and religion.

What should you know?

Ideally, parents of the girls know what sex lives of their daughters are and it does not mean they should know the details but when the relationship between parent and child is open, healthy and natural it is normal for parents to know what stage of sexual development of their daughters is and know when they are going to have sex for the first time.

The decision is of adolescents!

But the decision of what they want their parents to know about sex life can only be taken by the girls. But if parents are concerned with establishing good communication with daughters and understand that they must have autonomy to decide on their body will get that adolescents more open and involve them in what happens in their lives.



In some cases communication between fathers and daughters is not as smooth and they do not tell their parents anything about their sex life. Unquestionably, the adolescents have the right to privacy and should be the ones who decide what counted and what not to tell their parents. But it is also true of the girls who do not have anything that parents should make an effort to improve communication with their children and ensure that these have the information they need to make their sex life healthy, enjoyable and secure.

What to do before your first time?

We must be clear about one thing as it is normal the teenager who tells her parents that she will sleep with her boyfriend for the first time. Before that first time occurs, it is necessary that adolescents have enough know how about sex. Virtually none of them will require data about how-to and how long because girls tend to have information about it.



 

What you need is more about the emotional implications of sex. It is important to understand that is not just a physical act. In most cases, sex also has a strong emotional component.

Safe Sex

And it is equally vital that they understand the responsibility that comes with having sex, with themselves and with their partners. Definitely it is mandatory that they have information about contraception and sexually transmitted diseases and how to avoid them.